Skirt Followup

So, the guy who wears the skirt popped up today.  Here's the conversation:

wms2466: Hey ginger
wms2466: wms2466 buzzes you!
wms2466: Hello dear
wms2466: I sent you an email
gingerphillips: hello dear
gingerphillips: when?
wms2466: This morning
gingerphillips: ok.  lemme check it.
wms2466: OKay

Here's the email he sent me:

Well  thank you for the message you sent to me, dear i will like to start by saying this is a little more about me as i would like to let you know all my life has been filled with pains if you will ask me i will say i live a tragic life... i have no siblings am the first and only child of my parents and i started living alone since i was 29yrs when i lost my father in a car crash on his way back from a night party as my mom was divorced when i was 16yrs old and went to marry another man so ever since life is what it is for me, I take each day like i see it.

I am not a very good fan of this online dating stuff because i do not believe in it, though I am just new to it..that means i would prefer meeting in person and having a conversant conversation, it was a friend who talked to me about it and i also had my son asking me to give it a trial....and i did it because i need to find that other half of me and i wanted to be happy and my son wants me to be happy when i found someone so i decided to give a trial if I can have any luck on there. this is why i contacted you.. i love my son and he is all i have for now until i find the right woman for me... Jay is only 7 and i raised him all by myself. 

I think i can relocate for the right woman....... ( FACT ) 

  I have never been married but i have been in 2relationships, I have my Son from the first relationship, the last one doesn't work out...Because all she was selfish  and was only thinking about want was want and sex... she wouldn't even treat my Son like her own child, and i was still nice and caring to her most women are not just ready in having a relationship, all they are after is just sex, but i want something more because i am looking for someone honest to settle down...( life partner )I am looking for something real so that's why I contacted you.

 i'm a bit of an adrenalin junky at times and like to challenge myself, hence i've done skydive, wingwalk, firewalks. I also love chilling out, meditation and connecting with nature! I love experiencing new things in life and will have a go..I am 6,2 tall average body type,hazel eyes and brown hair...

 I'm a Civil  Contractor working as a petroleum refining consultant for a large multinational corporation. I travel to Europe,Australia-New Zealand,  And Asia on work-related assignments. I love my job for the good money and all less stress at my level i have been doing this for about 13yrs,  

but know i look cool and handsome too..Two years from now is just an assumption to me its enough time to settle down and have a wife if God grant us life, and i just wanna know if you think anything close to that. and also i would not am not looking for more kids. but if you want then so be it..? are you very religious ? do you believe in Marriage ? tell me more about your job.. and your every day life.  

I like to make my own things more beautiful but i don't want to be the center of attraction..i will really love to hear more from you and hopeful get to know your motives and intension towards me cause i really would want to work towards getting to meet you in person and hopeful see what happens next...Maybe we can go out if you like going out for dance or a drink i mean just anything you like to do for fun. I am open to new things too.

 Have a lovely day and take good care of yourself and say Hi to everyone of your friends over there and tell them one last handsome guy is knocking at the door of your heart hoping to come into your life anytime if you open lol..maybe/maybe not it depends on your faith and the truth of your heart towards me......

but i really see this coming because i have been praying to God to provide for me a suitable partner because i do not want to remain single all my life, maybe here you are. who knows.

I hope this finds you well

Steven

So, I go back to IM:

gingerphillips: are you steve williams?
wms2466: yes
gingerphillips: whre are you located?
wms2466: I am in cordell in OK
gingerphillips: where do you live?
wms2466: I just told you are you not reading my message
gingerphillips: I can't tell if you live in OK or if you are just there working?
wms2466: I am in Cordell at the moment but i am originally from pittsburgh in PA
gingerphillips: I have to be honest with you, the whole skirt thing was a deal breaker for me.  I really don't see a future for us.  I'm sorry.
wms2466: And how are you so sure
gingerphillips: it's a no dude.
wms2466: So you wanna go right
wms2466: "wms2466 (wms2466)" signed off at Tue Aug 30 09:41:21 2011.
End of wms2466 buffer: Tue Aug 30 10:27:45 2011

Skirts

This stuff is too good for me to make up!  Let me start this post by saying that I haven't really felt like talking to anyone this week.  In spite of my lackadaisical attitude, I have talked to a couple of people.  One person who goes by Sgt John Queen and claimed to be stationed in Iraq.  When I asked him which base he was actually stationed out of in the US, he gave me his home address. 

This other person, I am just going to cut and paste the conversation here.  I really don't care about protecting his anonymity:

Steve Williams: hey
GsFirstKiss: hi
Steve Williams: So how are you today
Steve Williams: and how long have you been on the site
GsFirstKiss: I'm gearing up for Irene!
GsFirstKiss: which site?
Steve Williams: zoosk
GsFirstKiss: a couple of weeks.
Steve Williams: I a pretty new on here as i am only 5days on the site
Steve Williams: have you found any body
GsFirstKiss: nah
GsFirstKiss: i found you!

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Steve Williams: hey
GsFirstKiss: hi
Steve Williams: So how are you today
Steve Williams: and how long have you been on the site
GsFirstKiss: I'm gearing up for Irene!
GsFirstKiss: which site?
Steve Williams: zoosk
GsFirstKiss: a couple of weeks.
Steve Williams: I a pretty new on here as i am only 5days on the site
Steve Williams: have you found any body
GsFirstKiss: nah
GsFirstKiss: i found you!
Steve Williams: hehehehe that sounds sweet
GsFirstKiss: where are you located?
Steve Williams: I am in Mohnton PA
Steve Williams: and you
GsFirstKiss: I'm in Downingtown
Steve Williams: SOunds great
Steve Williams: so what do you do for living
GsFirstKiss: I'm a software engineer.  You?
Steve Williams: i am an Oil Spillage consultant a technical adviser in control of spills and clean-up of HCp - HFO of a Petroleum Company I love doing my Job very much and like to travel alot
GsFirstKiss: I would think you would live near the gulf then not in the middle of Pennsylvania.  lol
GsFirstKiss: r u there?
Steve Williams: lol
Steve Williams: I dont get to work currently because i get called up for my job and sometimes it has to let me travelling
Steve Williams: have you ever traveled out of the states?
GsFirstKiss: I lived in the UK for 2+ years in my 30s and have traveled Europe extensively.
Steve Williams: That sounds lovely
Steve Williams: I have been to New Zealand and some other southern part of the work
Steve Williams: world*
GsFirstKiss: so what do you do when you are not doing oil clean up stuff?
Steve Williams: I do work from home
Steve Williams: and some other paper works for companies
GsFirstKiss: I do the software behind Video on Demand
Steve Williams: how long have you been doing that
GsFirstKiss: I've been in software since I graduated.  Been doing VOD since December.
Steve Williams: do you like your job ?
GsFirstKiss: I love my job.
GsFirstKiss: I have an HD TV and a TiVo Box on my desk and watch tv/video all day!!lol
Steve Williams: Great
Steve Williams: tell me more about yourself
GsFirstKiss: Well, I like to shoot guns.  lol
GsFirstKiss: I grew up in Arkansas.
GsFirstKiss: I like to go into the city.
GsFirstKiss: I like to travel.
GsFirstKiss: Love to go out to eat.  Can stay in too.
GsFirstKiss: Tell me about you.....
Steve Williams: well I am fiercely independent but still want to be taken care of and relish in the thought of an abundance of winks, touching, smiling eyes, quick kisses everyday... cherished and priceless to me.
Steve Williams:
I am at a point in my life where all I need are the simple things in life and someone to share them with hopfully a good woman.. I am looking for someone in a similar life situation who is looking for a partner in life.
GsFirstKiss: hang on.  Mama on the phone.
Steve Williams: ok
GsFirstKiss: back
GsFirstKiss: ok.  your profile says you like to wear long skirts?
Steve Williams:   I love the Jersey shore (any beach) in the summer, thunderstorms and blizzards. Winters are great for taking in the beautiful white snow on the trees and cozying up on the couch with that special person...snowball fights are fun too. I am most peaceful and energized at the water. I enjoy walks at the end of the day, working out at the gym and connecting with family, friends and that special person. Live music and exploring new areas is always interesting to me
Steve Williams: Oh yeah i use to like that but its been a while i did it
GsFirstKiss: for real?
Steve Williams: Do you know i am originally fro ukraine ?
GsFirstKiss: that's nice.  I'll bet you have a lovely accent.  Did you really wear skirts?  for real?
Steve Williams: Lol
Steve Williams: I dont do that in public except when i am indoor with my son
Steve Williams: so i just do it for fun for him lol
Steve Williams: i like to make him laugh
GsFirstKiss: look I really appreciate your honesty.  But, I have to be honest with you, that's a deal breaker for me.
Steve Williams: how do you mean
Steve Williams: Are you suggesting that i may not have time for you or what
Steve Williams: well if you must know i used to make him laugh more so he will not feel the pain of losing his mother at a very young age
GsFirstKiss: look, I'm from the south and I can't date a man that has worn a skirt.  I'm sorry.


Now, if you ain't laughing right now, you ain't right!!!